Sunday, January 28, 2007

A Happy Happy Birthday Post To My Two Wonderful Aquarians!!

Nao!!! 18..so handsome and sweet and fun-loving! have a great night and a wonderful new year as a YA!! heh.

Joanie Babie!!!!!!!! hunnie there is too much to say that I just don't have time to say it all! so to make it quick, i want you to know how much I love you, and how much I miss you! as much as I would love to be with you on your big day, know that my prayers and love are there for me! chin up, and smile luv! it's your big day, you're the princess and deserve to be treated as one!!
HAPPY 16th!!!!!! stay cute forever!!!!! you'll always be my special little ballerina with little blue ribbons in your hair! hee hee! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!

and to every Aquarian out there....you're loved! have a great day!! you rock;)



and now i'm off to a wonderful four days of wonderful feast time!!
my prayers and love are with you all!!!!!!
MUWA!!









Saturday, January 27, 2007

I love my boyfriend, and all the little debates we have, which happen quite often, heh, only make me love him more.
He says one thing, I say another. We both seem to think we're both right, and sometimes, I am wrong, sometimes...he's wrong. That never seems to matter tho. Even if I am right, he won't accept it all the way. Or the other way around for that matter. We both want to wear the pants, but I let him wear them. "I wear the Gs." He rolls his eyes and I smirk, he jumps at me and I scream. We tumble, and wrestle for some time. He hurts me. I hit him and pull away. He frowns, we argue. He pulls me to him and kisses me, I pout like a brat, he wants to hit me over the head with a toy hammer. I laugh, he smiles. We kiss, then say we love each other. We cuddle, till we've both forgotten what had happened, then run off to the livingroom to join the others.
This happens more then once, but it's okay, because I love him and he loves me; and as long as that's the truth, everything will be alright. Every debate will be a time to remember when he's gone and i'm left alone in the room, missing him. It's funny how even though Love is the most perfect thing on earth, it still involves hard times and those occational debates;) Sometimes I worry, sometimes I expect too much from this Relationship, and when hard times hit I freak. It shouldn't be the caise. Love is beautiful because of the hard times, the Lord has to remind me that every day. You can never find a gem that is perfect, never eat a food that is just right--but it's okay, because as long as you treasure it, everything will be alright.
I read an article in the Activated this morning, how the solution to being happy is not by trying to make others around you and your situation and yourself, perfect, but to love. That's it. Just love. Love is simple, yet dificult sometimes. I of all people am learning that right now. But the result of it is more then beautiful and wonderful, and it's something I am willing to fight for. Lord help me.
In every situation let me take You with me, that's what You told me, that's what You said would make everything worthwhile no matter what the situation.
Lord help me to love more. Help us all.

I post this for you, baby! heh heh. remember? I said I would post somethen about ya! heh. Even tho you're one big goofy chum (HEEHEE), you're one of the most beautiful blessings I have received. I love you babe!!
something for you poor souls out there..
men..
tsk tsk..
HEE HEE!!!


Every woman, & when I say this I speak for ALL of us women, needs a man who makes them feel like they are the most precious thing in the world.
How?

Hugs, for example. Most women love to be hugged, especially by people of the oposite sex. YOU men. A pat on the back, a quick "loose" movement of lazy arms being thrown around her body because you're embarrssed or shy. Squeezing too hard can even become a problem--What? You trying to squish the life out of her or something? No no, that won't do.
Listen up boys, each hug is precious in our eyes, especialy if you're the one we have our eyes on. If you're going to come up to us and go out of your way to hug us, you might as well go out of your way completely and use that manly charm on us. Relax, don't tense up. Hold yourself like you're the boss and you know what you're doing--she's the princess, the center of your adoration! Show her. Make her feel special, make her smile & walk away thinking "He's such a charmer! So cuddly & sweet." What man on earth wants a woman to walk away & tell her friends that you're a "strange one".
Don't be over confident either, sometimes big ego turns a woman way off. And we don't want that, do we?
Don't cover your ears boys, or look away, this is for YOU: your looks. Women love it when a man keeps himself clean, when she goes to hug him and she can smell a freshly clean shirt, good-smelling cologne, and nice-smelling breath. Trim the hairs, shave the beards--most women love a sharp-clean looking face. She is your woman, you are suposed to win her heart, not scare her away!
Treat her like a woman. Not a thing. Not a man. She is a delicate being that deserves to be treated like a princess. You're the man, it's your job in making sure your woman feels cared for and beautiful. Remind her all the time that she is beautiful, how wonderful she smells, how cute she looks when she laughs. You'll win her heart by speaking her language, not by getting her to speak yours. That will come later.

Here are the 12 secrets to making us women happy:

Romance Is the Key To Sex
For Her, Sex Takes Time
Talking Is the Way She Connects With You
She Needs To Hear You Say You Care
She Needs To Know She's Attractive
Her Feelings Need To Be Honored
Making Up Is Hard To Do
She Likes To Be Pampered
She Needs Your Respect
She Needs To Feel Secure
She Needs Your Time and Attention
She Wants a Man Who Makes Her Feel Like a Woman



And ladies!! Did you know that men crave this thing you possess, your powers of Feminine Grace, so much so that they're hungry for it, even starving for it? They need it, crave it and all you need to do is awaken to it.
With every man I interviewed I always asked them what they found most attractive in a woman.

Here is a list of those qualities that were mentioned most often:

Self-confidence, comfort with who she is;
Stands tall with a sense of personal pride;
Happy with an easy laugh;
Positive outlook on life (they hated complaining and whining);
Enjoys being a woman and doesn't try to be like the men;
Appreciative of what makes a man a man.




-Kara O.-


Amen boys!!! hahahahahaha...i'm joking. you know we all love you so so much!!!

Friday, January 19, 2007

I'm baaack, miss me? heh. gosh it feels so good to be back in Chiba, back home...to my bed, pillows, room, friends etc,.
i'm not even going to start on the stories of what happened, three weeks can add up alot and i'd end up blabbing while you slept:p heehee.
for those of you who have kept the whole trip in your prayers, thank U! it all went well and know you've been in my prayers as well, and always will be!! xx
it's another year, another year to grow and smile and learn and laugh and make babies (grin.) and fall in love and find new friends. and much much more:) I really hope you all have had a wonderful new years! and hope the best for your year to be better then the last! i love you alll! muuuuuuwaa!